Failure -

(Some thoughts on failure when at a time in life, I could have seriously failed at something big, but didn't. At that narrow escape from failure I wrote down few thoughts consoling myself as if I had failed. Sharing it with you!) 

Though it's said failure is first step to success it's still a failure. I get it, that, failure at any try, is in itself not the end of the world but surely it's nothing to boast about.. Acknowledging failure is in itself a success. It often happens you know that the thing you're trying to do is sure failure but trying until it's literally over is success. Failure is subjective..

In true sense I feel failure is one when one does not achieve one aspired for. You can play the half full half empty glass story to prove you're half successful but in substance you've fully failed. 

The reason to try until a failure is absolute failure is because if you try it might become a success in an unexpected turn of events but if you don't try at all, it's absolute failure the moment you stop trying.

It may seem very vicious but it is what it is.. Failure denotes you tried... Once the failure is absolute you can move on to the acceptance. Acceptance is recognizing you've failed and moving on to why I failed. It's utterly unimaginable and at times heavily challenging to even accept failure. One may attempt a cowardly act to change the aspiration itself to desired outcome but it's just.. sad.. Truly failing at something and accepting that failure is much much heroic than delusional success